This glow-up is not about trends, aesthetics, or external validation. It is about alignment. When faith, character, and daily habits align with what pleases Allah, the outward glow follows naturally.


Faith & Connection With Allah

☐ Guard the five daily prayers on time
☐ Add Sunnah Mu’akkadah consistently
☐ Begin or renew a Qur’an routine, even if short
☐ Make daily istighfār part of your life
☐ Build a habit of duʿāʾ beyond times of need
☐ Learn Allah’s Names and reflect on them
☐ Protect your heart from despair and constant guilt


Modesty & Presence

☐ Dress with hayāʾ, dignity, and intention
☐ Remove attention-seeking habits from appearance
☐ Walk calmly and confidently, without arrogance
☐ Lower the gaze and guard interactions
☐ Speak clearly without softness meant to attract
☐ Choose elegance over excess


Character & Manners

☐ Work on patience during irritation and stress
☐ Control anger before it controls you
☐ Remove gossip, sarcasm, and backbiting
☐ Speak kindly even when provoked
☐ Assume good of others unless proven otherwise
☐ Keep promises and honor trusts
☐ Practice humility without self-hatred


Inner Healing & Self-Respect

☐ Let go of people-pleasing at the expense of faith
☐ Release shame tied to past sins after tawbah
☐ Stop comparing your journey to others
☐ Protect emotional boundaries
☐ Choose solitude over harmful company
☐ Speak to yourself with honesty, not cruelty


Lifestyle & Daily Discipline

☐ Sleep early enough to protect Fajr
☐ Reduce distractions that numb the heart
☐ Replace idle scrolling with purposeful rest
☐ Be mindful of what you consume mentally and emotionally
☐ Keep your space clean and intentional
☐ Care for your body as an amanah


Relationships & Social Life

☐ Distance yourself from ḥarām or draining attachments
☐ Choose friends who remind you of Allah
☐ Stop oversharing your private life
☐ Set respectful, firm boundaries
☐ Value peace over proving a point


Mindset & Growth

☐ Measure success by Allah’s pleasure, not praise
☐ Accept gradual growth without quitting
☐ Turn mistakes into return, not self-destruction
☐ Detach from dunya without neglecting responsibility
☐ Remember death without becoming hopeless
☐ Renew intentions often


A Muslimah glow-up is not loud.
It is grounded.
It is consistent.
It is rooted in īmān.

When the heart aligns with Allah,
the glow becomes natural, steady, and unshakeable.